Case Study: Polly

Polly felt nothing was working for her in her love life, and she couldn’t pinpoint why

When Polly joined Soul Level Love, she had just given up on online dating. “I was literally making no connections.”

“I’ve been divorced for 16 years. I dated on and off and then decided to REALLY get back in the game. I had professional photos done, got a professional profile and went on Match.com. It was exciting at first – I went out with tons of men. But none of them got further than a second date.”

All of these dead-end dates started to make Polly wonder if something was wrong with her.

“I thought I had the skills I needed. I thought I learned everything that I could. But the more dates I went on with people who had no social skills whatsoever, the more confidence I lost”

She started to second guess that the right man could be out there.

“One of the mistakes Polly felt she made in the past was following the rule that you need to have a list of the qualities of your perfect man – and be specific.

“I had specific requirements I felt like the right man needed to have.”

She had eliminated a lot of really great guys.

“And then I became TOO open, letting basically anyone have a shot. Bad idea! It was very frustrating”

Polly was also still holding on to feelings for a man she dated a few months before.

“He was popping into my head all the time. I just kept wondering if I made a mistake. Should I have given it a better chance?”

Finding closure and letting her Ex go

The truth was, Polly was having all of these bad experiences because of one specific Love Block – she wasn’t really available for someone new. When we walk around with doubts or questions about an ex, it is like having an invisible hold on your heart. In Soul Level Love, there’s an entire class dedicated to releasing the Love Blocks you have around Ex’s. In the class, you get clear on if you want to try to get back with your Ex (and how you can do that) – or what you need to do to TRULY release him.

“For the first time, I have total closure and am able to see that relationship for what it was. I’m clear on how it all really affected me. It doesn’t creep into my mind anymore”

Attracting Soul Level Love into your life is about releasing the energy that’s keeping you closed off. You can’t actually FORCE yourself to be open. With the skills Polly learned in Soul Level Love – being open and attracting in men just started happening naturally.

It even gave her the courage to start approaching men!

“There was a man working in this restaurant I found very attractive. We made a lot of eye contact and I spoke to him on my way out. I posted a review on their Facebook page and made mention of him. He contacted me almost immediately. As it turns out, he wasn’t appropriate for me BUT it gave me such a boost to take control and make a move. As an introvert, it was liberating.”

Embracing what she learned in Soul Level Love, Polly started showing up with men in an entirely new way. She wasn’t tied in to her Ex, she wasn’t second guessing everything she did or said. She was just Polly, and that was enough.

Every woman in Soul Level Love sees a spillover of results into the other parts of their lives.

For Polly, it showed up most with her family.

“Soul Level Love is good on so many different levels. It’s so great for family and opening up those lines of communication. Feeling safe to let them in, in ways you haven’t let them in before. That’s what I really love about Kavita’s whole perspective. You can use the skills anywhere.”